When it came to potty training my first child, I was doing my research from the time Bo was 6 months old and on. I had a game plan and knew exactly what I had to do to get him going in the potty like a champ in no time. I was pretty certain that he was going to receive the Guiness Book World Record for Youngest Infant in History to be potty trained. I started and quickly came to the realization that Bo was not interested. He was perfectly fine wetting and even worse, pooping his pants all day long. It was a nightmare. I pushed him so hard and he pushed right back. It was at the ripe old age of 4 1/2 that he finally decided he should get on board with our plans to avoid me permanently losing my mind. So, why am I starting my “How to potty train your toddler” post with a story of failure? Because here is the thing….every child is different. What works for one child doesn’t necessarily work for another. And to further that, you as a parent have to be ready. It takes some dedication but once you both are on board, you are good to start!
A little over a year ago, we had just finished treatment for Hayes. It was August of 2016 and we were finally together as a “normal” family that was recovering from 8 months of separation and treatment. We were desperate for normalcy, our kids were desperate for joy. I remember it was a Sunday afternoon when Steve came down the stairs with a huge smile and an idea. He was holding an old pair of childrens lederhosen from my childhood and said he wanted to dress up the babies. We put Heath in the outfit first and it hit me, he looked like he was straight out of the movie, The Sound of Music, and a vision was born….Baby Dress Ups!
Every Sunday, we would come up with a new theme and dress up the babies. The kids began to smile again and it was like we were healing with laughter. It was something we looked forward to every week. I had no idea that these pictures would become so much a part of our lives and I was even more shocked when Huffington Post Canada picked up our story. I hope that our makeshift, home made costumes will be something that brings a little smile to our hearts forever…priceless memories that will forever be documented for generations. Once again, a reminder that joy is found in the simple moments in life.